Dearly Beloved...

We are enjoying a week at the beach.   Each evening we venture out to the beach with our chairs to take advantage of the ocean breezes.  Usually the children entertain us as they play in the waves, sand or fly kites.  Last night we were fortunate enough to witness a wedding.  So sorry I did not take my camera since we thought it might rain.  I promise to not go anywhere without it after this occassion.

As we watched the photographer take pre-wedding pictures I noticed a variety of outfits- anything from madras to sequins, shorts to evening gowns.   The poor florist struggled in her attempt to decorate an arch with tuelle. I had several thoughts about how beautiful and simple a beach wedding could be.  I like many southern brides had the big hometown wedding, but after witnessing a few beach weddings think it might just be the way to go. 

My thoughts on planning a beach wedding:

Do not attempt to decorate the beach with things not found at the beach. God has done it for you.  If you need decoration consider sand scupltures or sandcastles.  Stand at the water's edge and marry as the water brushes against your bare feet.

All beach wedding attire should be made of natural fibers (silk, cotton and linen) and in colors you might find at the beach or in the ocean.  The traditional wedding gown, tuxedos, and bridesmaids dresses were not intended for the beach.  Wedding guest take note on the attire.  Don't forget to tell the preacher about the color scheme.  Grooms leave the gold chains at home.  Barefoot is great and make sure everyone gets the message- stilletos and sand do not mix.

Flowers- flower tattoos should not be substituted for corsages- please cover tattoos.  Keep flowers simple and in keeping w/colors you might find at the beach or in the ocean.  Do not wear artificial flowers in your hair- especially royal blue in color.

Children at a beach wedding will find it tempting to play in the sand or simple run due to the wide open spaces- be prepared if you invite children. 

Set up chairs for your guest or request they bring a chair.  It is difficult for people to see if they are standing.

Since you are saving so much money on decor and location- splurge on the photographer.